Do u know that u can consider compare with other ppl??
Sounds familiar with this sentence....?
Ya, ppl in this world like to compare him/herself to others.... such as : who is having better job,
who earning more, who is having better opportunity.... etc....
I used to be a person who like to compare too.... which end up, i'm not happy, keeps finding a way to get myself better.... when i think back now, it was so silly and tiring....
what is the point to compare with others. To me, everyone will have their own destiny and fate. we only compare with those who's better than us. vice versa, there are also ppl out there who don't even have a home & no one cares about them.... what would it be if we compare with those ppl... sure we are also lucky, right?
So, i've decided now. will only compare to myself. now & the past.... jz to make sure i've improvement everyday. this will be enough for me..... & i believe my life will get easier without comparing with other instead.
4 条评论:
告诉你一个小小秘密，
那就是。。。“我从来没有和别人比较过”
我不是吹牛的，是真的。
不是因为我早就看得开这一点，而是我笨，蠢，不回去跟人比较。
嘻嘻。。。 信不信由人。。。
真的吗? 那很好啊!
不和人比较, 才会活的自在啊!
相信你也感受到那种说不出的快乐和自在吧!
我自己在读书时, 就很喜欢和人比.什么都要好过别人. 到先在才学会放下比较, 做好自己. 好像慢了点哦!
got compare only got improvement.
no compare, then u will stay in same lvl.
of coz, when comparing wit ppl which is better than u, u will feel presure, tension, unhappy. but no choice, u cant deny its motivated u.
comparing wit higher class ppl, will motivate u.
comparing wit lower class ppl, will made u feel luckier.
m i rite ah? :-)
ya.... that's y i said it's better to compare within urself...
jz need to ensure the "today's u" is better than the "yesterday's u". that's enough to motivate oneself to get improved...
really, it's not neccessary to compare with others but to yourself.
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